Anonymous asked: do you believein virginty as a social concept? like obviously some people have had sex and others havent but do you think it means anything or that its just bs made up to degrade certian people?
tumblr’s gonna hate me for this opinion oh boy
but i think it depends. if a girl or boy who’s 13 goes out and sleeps with someone they aren’t dating, i think that’s wrong, and yes, i would judge that. but it’s not just age; if someone who’s 16 and has been dating their SO for a year, i would think it far more appropriate for them to have sex than it would for a 20 year old to go around sleeping with everyone without really knowing them. sex isn’t just some little pastime; it’s important, and creates a chemical bond between two people. i’m not going to degrade someone based on their past/current sexual relations, but i will use that as a reflection on their personality and whether i would enjoy said person’s friendship/company etc
u feel me?
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